Clarity Lab™ — The First 10 Dates Protocol

Pace naturally, build consistency, and decide with confidence.

 Great starts don’t need more chemistry, they need structure. If your early dating has been texting marathons, last-minute plans, rushing intimacy, and then fizzle, this protocol gives you a calm, repeatable pace for Dates 1–10 so momentum turns into consistency, not confusion. You’ll keep it daylight, 60–90 minutes, one anchored date per week, a short midweek check-in, and clear boundaries you say once and enforce.

What You’ll Feel

• By Dates 1–2: steady pace, no auditioning; you leave first and anxiety drops.
• By Dates 3–4: plan integrity—set, confirm, keep; small misses repaired without drama.
• By Dates 5–8: real openness, weeknight rhythm, and social context that stays steady.
• By Dates 9–10: a clean decision—exclusivity now, a 3–4 week Slow-Yes window, or a graceful no.

What You’ll Do

• Weekly anchor + midweek check-in (logistics, not all-day chat).
• Daylight rule + 90-minute default; you leave first.
• Two-Door Limit: one invite → one nudge → then stop.
• Micro-repair one-liners that turn apologies into changed behavior.
• Intimacy pacing: no sleepovers before exclusivity; calm > rush.
• DTR readiness test at Date 10 with exact exclusivity scripts.
• Apps hygiene: off at exclusivity; low-noise before then.

 What’s Inside

• The 10-Date Pacing Map (objective • length • location for each date)
• Date 1–10 playbooks (scripts, boundaries, future-bid prompts)
• Plan-Maker message bank & Follow-Up variants
• Micro-Repair playbook & Red/Yellow Rescue Tree
• Intimacy Pacing & Sleepover Policy (pre/post exclusivity)
• Exclusivity Structure (cadence, comms, apps-off, repair rules)
• Slow-Yes Window (3–4 weeks, on purpose) & Clean No scripts
• Digital Hygiene + early-dating text heuristics
• Short, grounded closing you can actually keep

 Who This Is For

For women who want early dating to feel calm, consistent, and decisive—not chaotic. Not for back-burner vibes, pen-pal chat, or “we’ll see” plans.